Often times in recovery, we have situations that come up, things that feel absolutely overwhelming to us and we do not know how we will handle them.  In the past we would use over them, or at least reach for a something to muster up the courage to face them.  Today we must deal with them in a sober manner if we are going to continue in our forward walk in sobriety.

One thing I have learned over the years is that fear wants me to make a decision quickly, and more often than not, a decision made in haste is generally a wrong decision.

Today, when I feel the urge to act quickly, I pause and remember that this too shall pass.  I give myself time and time often takes care of the situation without my intervention.

My father use to say to me, Cheryl, just stop and watch life unfold sometimes.